Ukuthetha ngoonodoli bezesondo, kuhlala kungenakuhlukaniswa nokuhlaselwa komntu siqu "njengegqwetha" kunye "nokugula kwengqondo".
Xa umntu esazi ukuba kukho into yokudlala enjalo, ujamelana nokugculelwa kwexesha elide lokubulawa esidlangalaleni.Nokuba ngaba ngabom okanye iyaqhula, ibinzana elithi "intombi yakho ivuza iimfihlo" iya kuhlala isenza umntu ochaphazelekayo akazi ukuba kuqhubeka njani, kwaye baya kuzifihla ngasese izinto abazithandayo.
Ngokuhamba kwexesha, abahlobo kwisangqa unodoli bayonwabela, kodwa abantu abangaphandle kwesangqa basasebenzisa "isondo" ecocekileyo ukulinganisa lo mbandela.
Kodwa ngaba ukhe wacinga ukuba ubukho boonodoli be-silicone abukho kuphela kwiimfuno zesini?
Ukubeka bucala ucalucalulo lwehlabathi, emva kwawo wonke unodoli wesini kukho isixhaso sokomoya salowo usisebenzisayo
1. Abantu abadala abachitha iminyaka yabo yobudala kunye noonodoli be-silicone
Ngo-2016, indoda eneminyaka engama-70 ubudala yathenga unodoli we-silicone kwi-intanethi ye-16,000 RMB emva kokukhonza umfazi wayo ongasekhoyo, kwaye yanxiba ilokhwe ebomvu yomfazi wayo njengomnqweno.
Ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe, umfazi wakhe wayekhathazeke kakhulu ngenxa yokwaluphala kwakhe waza wathembisa ukuba uza kumazisa kumfazi wakhe, kodwa wala.
"Ndivakalelwa kukuba ikamva eliphakathi kwam nomfazi wam alipheli. Zininzi izinto ekufuneka zenziwe okwangoku. Andikwazi ukuyeka iimvakalelo zam nomfazi wam."Emva kokugqiba, ndiya kuziva ukuba ndisendaweni."
Ukususela ngoko, indoda eneminyaka engama-70 ubudala yaqala ukufunda izimonyo, ithengela "umfazi" izesekeli, ithethe naye, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iholele ukudansa kwigumbi lokuhlala.
Xa esidla, uya kulungiselela iiseti ezimbini zesitya kunye nezinti kwaye abeke irayisi phambi "komfazi".
Okanye bukelani iTV kunye, okanye umamele umsebenzi wasekhaya okruqulayo waseThai.
Kwixesha elizayo, indoda endala yacacisa ukuba kukho unodoli we-silicone ohlakaniphile, njengomfazi wesibini okanye wesithathu, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvuma ukuthenga enye.
Emehlweni abantu abadala, lo unodoli we-silicone ungumthwali wokuqhubeka nobudlelwane phakathi komfazi wakhe kunye naye.Oonodoli bequmrhu abayomveliso nje yabantu abadala, kodwa bakwasisithuthi sabantu sokuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokubeka iimvakalelo zabo.
Ixesha lokuposa: Nov-04-2021